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Your type is a 10. But are they a 100?

Build your roster. Score every connection across ten categories. Compare them head to head, bring in your circle, and watch the story change week to week.

STAYS ON YOUR DEVICE · NO REAL NAMES · NO SIGN-UP

FICTIONAL ROSTER · TAP A CARD

BUILD THE ROSTER SCORE THE CONNECTION EARN THE RECEIPT COMPARE HEAD TO HEAD BESTIES WEIGH IN TRACK THE PLOT BUILD THE ROSTER SCORE THE CONNECTION EARN THE RECEIPT COMPARE HEAD TO HEAD BESTIES WEIGH IN TRACK THE PLOT

STEP 1 · MEET YOUR LINEUP

Everyone you're talking to. One honest page.

Nicknames only, stages and all. Tap around — this fictional roster works exactly like the real one.

Alex

Dating · Met at a gallery opening

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From the journal

"Great talk. Watching if the effort holds past week three."

Category strengths

★ Intellectual Connection · 9/10★ Physical Attraction · 8/10★ Emotional Maturity · 8/10

Room to explore: Lack of Turbulence — a prompt, not a verdict.

STEP 2 · RATE YOUR CONNECTION

Ten categories. One honest number.

This is the real scoring logic from the app — five of the ten categories, live. Rate all five to unlock the head-to-head against Climber Sam… and the receipt that prints at the end.

9/10
?
7/10
6/10
9/10
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Provisional — 4 of 5 rated. Unrated never counts as zero.

STEP 3 · THE BIG REVEAL

Discover your result.

Drumroll, please. Your honest number, where you and Sam's person diverge — and the receipt you just earned.

THE RESULTS ARE… SEALED

This step unlocks the moment you finish rating the connection in Step 2. No skipping the queue — the reveal has to be earned.

Back to Step 2 · Rate your connection

STEP 4 · COMPARE YOUR CONNECTIONS

The Committee presents: Alex vs Jordan

Ten categories, two people, and everywhere your impressions diverge. Swap either side — the whole comparison re-computes live.

Corner one

Corner two

Alex

Dating

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Jordan

It's complicated

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⚑ Chronic inconsistency

Physical Attraction8 · 9
Intellectual Connection9 · 8
Emotional Maturity8 · 5
Lack of Turbulence7 · 4
Communication8 · 5
Values Alignment8 · 6
Ambition & Life Direction7 · 7
Effort & Consistency8 · 4
Romantic Chemistry8 · 9
Lifestyle Compatibility7 · 6
Alex Jordan

Shared strengths

★ Physical Attraction★ Intellectual Connection★ Romantic Chemistry

Where your impressions diverge most

On Effort & Consistency, Alex earned 8 and Jordan 4 — a gap of 4. A prompt for reflection, not a verdict.

On Emotional Maturity, Alex earned 8 and Jordan 5 — a gap of 3. A prompt for reflection, not a verdict.

On Lack of Turbulence, Alex earned 7 and Jordan 4 — a gap of 3. A prompt for reflection, not a verdict.

⚑ Jordan has 1 dealbreaker on record. A high score never cancels a flag.

These are fictional people. Compare your real roster →

STEP 5 · BRING YOUR DATING COMMITTEE · COMING SOON

Your dating committee has entered the chat.

A group chat gives you opinions. A Circle gives you structured ones: your besties rate the same categories you do, right next to your numbers — only on the scorecards you choose to share.

Try the demo: set your own score and watch the circle disagree, tap a message to react, and cast your vote in the poll.

invite-onlyyou pick what they seejournals never shared

Nothing is shared unless you share it. Unshare anytime. Your friends' takes are labeled as impressions — never verdicts.

Today everything lives only on this device — no accounts, no cloud. When Circles launches it will need sign-in to work; we'll say so clearly before anything ever leaves your device.

The Committee 💌

DEMO · NOT SAVED

COLLABORATIVE RATING · EFFORT & CONSISTENCY · ALEX

How's Alex on effort? Set yours — the circle weighs in.

8/10

Maya said 5/10 3 below yours

"Nine?? He left you on read for two days."

Dev said 6/10 2 below yours

"Generous. Remember the birthday?"

This is the part a group chat can't do: scores next to scores, not texts after texts.

POLL · THE COMMITTEE

Keep or cut?

STEP 6 · THEN VS. NOW

Watch your impressions evolve.

A score is a moment; DateLens keeps the story. Drag through eight weeks of Sam — or just watch it play. Plus: your standards, and the Wrapped you'll earn by sticking around.

THEN VS NOW · SAM

Week 8
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Effort & Consistency8/10
Communication7/10
Romantic Chemistry9/10
WEEK 1WEEK 8

Auto-playing · drag to take over

"This week's note is just a smiley face. Growth."

Fictional history — but the math is the real thing. Scores drift; DateLens remembers.

DATING WRAPPED · PREVIEW

DATELENS WRAPPED

Your year in honest numbers

  • 3 connections rated
  • 30 honest numbers
  • 1 dealbreaker dodged
  • Most improved: Effort & Consistency
  • 6-week journaling streak

NOT A VERDICT — JUST YOUR YEAR

A preview — yours builds itself quietly as you score.

STANDARDS & DEALBREAKERS

Know your line before you're asked to cross it.

Kind to waitersPhones down at dinnerTherapy-positiveReads actual booksTexts back within a dayLoves my dog

⚑ Cancels twice = out

A high score never cancels a flag. DateLens won't let you forget it — even when the chemistry is a 9.

STEP 7 · THE REALITY LENS

Understand your patterns.

The Lens reads only what you wrote, separates observations from interpretations, quotes your own words back to you — and says "there isn't enough information" when there isn't.

THE REALITY LENS · WEEKLY DEBRIEF

Observation

Across three entries you described feeling "calm" before seeing Sam — a word that never appears in your notes about Jordan.

Tentative interpretation

Effort scores for Jordan dropped from 6 to 4 over a month. That could reflect a real pattern — or a harder stretch at work. Worth watching, not concluding.

One question

When did you last feel nervous-excited instead of nervous-anxious before a date?

The Lens reads only what you wrote, separates observations from interpretations — and says "there isn't enough information" when there isn't.

Your roster. Your scores. Your perspective.

No accounts. No cloud. No real names, photos, or phone numbers — just nicknames and honesty. Scores are subjective reflections, never verdicts about another person's worth.

Start your first scorecard
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